You will find ways to support the distance that separates you from the loved one, but you will always miss your other half. Fortunately, even if you cannot yet afford to live in the same place for one reason or another (job, studies, etc.), it is possible to meet regularly on an ad hoc basis during visits to your better half! So what to expect for your reunion? How to organize them? Here are a few tips :
Preparing for a beautiful reunion as a couple from a distance
Distance, a temporary situation
The greater the love before the momentary separation, the more painful the distance between the partners can be. However, this situation should not systematically lead to a breakup or too great difficulties, and seeing each other regularly allows you not to break down and to hold in your relationship at a distance.
Reunions between lovers are extremely effective in bringing you closer, and will be sources of magical memories that you will still remember in years to come. So try to afford it, if only once a year . During or after your long-distance relationship, these visits to your loved one will bring you particular comfort. So how do you properly prepare for your reunion with your boyfriend / girlfriend from a distance?
What you need to know about a romantic reunion
Every long-distance relationship has its moments of sadness. Which can quickly demotivate one or the other. But, if you fight despite this distance, then you plan to rekindle and preserve the flame of your love. To achieve this, planning a reunion with your partner is a great idea.
First, because a couple who meet after long periods of absence will no longer feel alone. It is an outcome that offers each of the partners the joy of being loved and of counting for the other. The physical contact will then reduce and even dispel cravings long proven.
Then, romantic reunions are an excellent way to live lively experiences and to confide in each other. You should know that it can be difficult to reveal truths from a distance. Thus, taking advantage of the reunion, you will both have the privilege of a change of scenery , of making great discoveries together and above all, of spending time as a couple. And in the case of a long distance relationship , you can even discover a new country, perhaps on the other side of the world!
On the other hand, we must not forget the positive impact on your future plans. Thanks to the reunion in love, your ideas on the future planning of the couple will be even more realistic. You will come out of the idealization that dominated your discussions on the Internet to finally touch with your finger what suits the tastes of one and the other.
In other words, organizing a romantic reunion, especially in a long-distance relationship, can be compared to a breath of fresh air. Because it is these reunions that strengthen the mutual trust between the partners and the faith in their future development.
How to organize an interesting reunion in a long distance relationship?
Now that you perceive some of the splendor of the reunion, all that remains is to appropriate the best tips for a successful preparation.
Organizing beautiful reunion in a remote relationship requires a serene state of mind and especially enthusiastic. It is true that after all this separation time, you will be somewhat puzzled on what is the posture to adopt for the happiness of your half. But, you should not stress. After all, they are nothing more than a very good company holiday!
He/she wishes to meet you again because of his/her love for you. He/she certainly cannot imagine life without you. So, are you ready to see your other half again? Here’s how to go about it, depending on whether you choose to take it by surprise or plan this visit for two.
Organize a reunion for two
Reunions are most often organized together by the two partners in the long-distance relationship. To succeed in organizing a great stay for two, here are a few points not to be overlooked.
- Choose the meeting date : everything will have to start from a compromise between the two partners, since the availability of one may not suit that of the other. Think, for example, of taking just for you, a romantic and well-stocked weekend.
- Choose the most suitable place : the other advantage of consensual reunions is the latitude available to the two partners to determine their meeting place. You could choose an exotic location, a peaceful, favorable destination to enjoy time together. Or simply go to each other, cheaper and just as nice!
- Establish a schedule : you don’t have to stay in one place. There is no harm in extending your reunion to several landmarks, even if it means living more lively and practical experiences in the company of your loved one. After all, you haven’t seen each other for a long time. Make the most of it, treat yourself to a great vacation together!
- Be at your best : it’s good to find yourself between lovers from time to time, because there are plenty of things to say to each other. This is the perfect time to chat, without upsetting the other. Prioritize peaceful and sympathetic communication during your reunion. In this way, everyone will feel confident, and then your projections for the future will have a positive impact.
Organize “surprise” reunions
The surprise reunions are spectacular! Before adopting this solution, be sure that your surprise will please your partner. If so, it would be better not to even think about it. Since the objective of the reunion is, above all, to make his or her partner happy.
- Take your time : don’t rush anything. Think about how you might surprise your partner by showing up at their place when they are several miles away from you. In order not to arouse his suspicions and spoil the element of surprise, your strategy must remain discreet.
- Determine the right time : to get there, you must first have the habit of talking well with your partner. Immerse yourself in his schedule to determine the best favorable date for your surprise reunion. If you travel 1000 kilometers to find your darling before you realize that he/she is not at home for 3 days, it is you who will be surprised… same if your partner has a big exam the next day and can’t allocate his time to you
- Surprise your partner: congratulations, you have managed to visit his region and even his neighborhood. Now, be sure to surprise him in the most beautiful way and with all your naturalness. Why not bring some friends or family members into the mix to make things even more spectacular?
See you again: a visit that is a source of emotions and memories
As you will have understood, in a long-distance relationship, reunions are almost comparable to the Holy Grail. It is such a precious event that it is likely to generate feelings of fear and stress while you organize it. Never mind !
When you put heart, a little imagination and naturalness into it, it’s easy to come back totally satisfied . It is enough to get to know and share your tastes between partners. This is how you will succeed in impressing the other during your reunion , whether they are organized as a couple or not.
Be careful not to have too many expectations for this reunion
Of course, as we rarely see each other, we want to do everything, but in truth it is important to keep time where… to do nothing. This will allow you to spend quiet time together, to rest, watch series, take the time to be together.
In a long-distance relationship, this aspect of reunion is also very important: it is what will allow you to feel “in a normal relationship” , as if you were never living apart . rather than planning everything by the hour, leave some room for chance. The stay will only be better!
Reunions and long-distance relationships: a budget to consider
Of course, living on love and fresh water is (unfortunately) not enough. When our boyfriend or girlfriend lives a long way from us, 1,000, 5,000 or 10,000 kilometers away, this can quickly represent a substantial sum! To budget for this reunion with your long-distance love, here are some things to consider:
- Share the costs: Even if everyone is not comfortable with the idea of talking about money, it would be important to do it between yourselves so that you can share the costs in an appropriate way.
- Discuss possible problems: In the same way, if your financial situation is delicate at the moment, express it to your partner rather than going into debt or declining the trip for false pretexts
- Book your tickets as soon as possible: prices rise very quickly in the field of travel… so make all your reservations well in advance. This means both transport (also on site: perhaps he needs a metro ticket, a bus ticket, etc.), booking the hotel room or the AirBnb if there is one, the various events you could attend (concert, activity by reservation such as certain visits, etc.)
- Don’t forget to set your holidays or make sure of the date of your vacation to avoid any inconvenience or unpleasant surprises later!
- Also think about all the additional costs of everyday life (food, money aside to go to a restaurant or buy souvenirs)
- Plan if necessary a currency exchange, for example from the euro to the dollar. Check with your bank that you can withdraw money in another country.
Crossing the oceans by plane to find your other half is quite an adventure, but it can’t be improvised! To do so in the best possible conditions and leave hassle-free, take the time to take stock. You will be perfectly organized for your reunion after all this time away from your love.
First reunion in a long-distance relationship
First visit to him/her? If this is your first reunion since the beginning of your relationship at a distance, this moment is all the more special. Perhaps you are scouring the web looking for advice because this first time you are going to see your boyfriend / girlfriend from a distance is stressing you out.
Don’t worry: it would definitely be a wonderful time, whether you were prepared or not. So plan what you can plan, and for the rest, let yourself go! I too had questions in my head during my first reunion when I was in a relationship at a distance. We have therefore prepared this article for you especially on the subject, to allay these fears
And you, when will you find your other half? How was the first time you saw each other in person?