Living in a long-distance relationship with a soldier is not easy. The army has its constraints, and even if it is an incredible life mission, the estrangement caused in the couple or the family is not obvious to anyone. That’s why it’s so important to support your military partner in this incredible adventure, and what better way to do that than a love letter? With letters, distance is always easier to live with.
Love letter for a soldier
The love letter will allow your military partner to understand that despite the distance, you are thinking of him and have only one desire: to find him . You can also include information about your daily life, to allow him to better understand what you are going through… Here is an example of a love letter to send to a military couple at a distance.
Do not hesitate to take it as a basis, and of course, to personalize it to make it something closer to your situation and your feelings : each relationship is unique! Don’t hesitate to send us your own examples of love letters, to inspire others in the same delicate situation of long-distance love with a soldier spouse.
If you are in a long-distance relationship with a soldier, do not hesitate to read our advice on the subject . Reconciling love and army is not easy, but these kind of little attentions help to go further, day after day, one step after another!
Example of a letter to your boyfriend/girlfriend in the army
My love,
Since our meeting, I have never regretted having chosen you, despite the difficulties and the distance. Before knowing you, nothing had the same flavor: thanks to you, I know the value of time. And of all the paths in the world that I could have taken, of all the directions to take, I’m a little more sure every day that I’ve followed the right one.
I know how long the wait is, how hard your work is, how much it all weighs on you. The army isn’t easy, I know that, neither is the distance. Know that your whole family is united behind you, and that all our thoughts are with you at all times. Thanks to you, we lack nothing, or rather, we only miss you. We are all very proud, myself included, of what you accomplish on a daily basis. Proud that despite the distance you succeed both as a soldier and as a father.
At night, when the sky is dark and the stars are bright, I sometimes wonder what you are doing and where you are. Maybe you too are looking at the sky at this moment? This thought always moves me. I would like to be by your side, to be able to support you and love you without distance. The wait is long, but the feelings experienced when you come back from the army for the time of a leave are incomparable: then, I realize better than ever how much I love everything about you. I miss everything: your little words, your tender gestures, your hugs and caresses, your expressions, your kisses too. I know it’s all a matter of time, and you always come back to us eventually.
I want you to know that despite the distance and the obstacles, you can always count on me: I will be strong for you. Even if you don’t see me, I’m always by your side, always with you. When I immerse myself in my memories, the world around me no longer exists: there is only you, more than the two of us, more than love. I find you every night in my dreams, and I miss you every time I wake up. Who knows, maybe one day, when I open my eyes, I’ll find you next to me, and you’ll never leave again. And that day, I will be the happiest of women. I love you more than anything.
Our little Mélanie thinks a lot about you too, and I tell her about your exploits in the evening. She always asks for more, and is very proud of her dad you know. She talks about it to her friends and her mistress with stars in her eyes, she’s a chatterbox! She is improving in drawing too as you can see: she absolutely wanted to send you this one. Maybe you could take some time to play together when you come back next?
Come back to us safe, I love you very much and we need you,
your beloved
And you, do you have extracts from a love letter to your military partner? These might help other people find inspiration