“I get bored”: 4 tips to avoid boredom in a long-distance relationship

Even when loving each other, the routine eventually sets in, and can affect a couple very strongly in a short time. Monotony and love don’t mix! Our advice to revive your couple before it risks sinking.

Boredom in a long-distance relationship: breaking free from the routine

Monotony, a common problem in long-distance couples

Love, even if you are distant, exists. Distance is no problem, but follow a few important rules, even if a continent separates you. The most common problems encountered in a long distance relationship are the monotony of your relationship and the lack of your partner. Both of these weaken your relationship . Don’t let them! Don’t tell yourself “I’m bored in my long-distance relationship” with your arms crossed, and take action to improve the situation. Each step can have a positive impact on your relationship!

Don’t feel lonely when you’re alone

Even if it may seem strange to you, in order not to be bored as a couple from a distance, you must above all not be bored alone ! To achieve this, broaden your areas of activity. Find occupations that allow you to escape from the sphere of your relationship . Have many activities in your daily life.

Take an interest in cinema, museums, discover new places in your city or practice a sport, for example. Don’t stop living without your soul mate! Otherwise, it’s your personal routine that may be the problem.

“I don’t know what to talk about in a long distance relationship”

This is a common problem: blank moments in long-distance couple chats!

Among the positive effects of this work on oneself, it will be possible to engage in conversation more easily with your partner when you discuss. If you have a lot to talk about, it will be much more natural and enjoyable. There is nothing worse than not knowing what to say in a long-distance relationship! If your partner sees that you are fulfilled, he will be reassured and you will live your romance to the full.

 

Think about your reunion

Plan your reunion together. If you have a common goal, on the one hand, time will pass more quickly and on the other hand, you will be too busy organizing yourselves to be bored ! Too often, long-distance couples forget to plan their reunion and miss moments of intense bonding.

Define where you want to meet and decide, who of Mr or Mrs will welcome the other in his cocoon. Also choose a date . It is essential to know when you will see each other again, because the impatience will only increase as the deadline approaches. And desire too.

The only difference between a dream and a goal is a date

Why not, for a romantic weekend or downright vacation, to enjoy the present moment together. However, be careful not to plan everything. You risk getting tired quickly and missing out on the essential, your partner. An important opportunity to cuddle and fill up on love before departure.

Pay attention to your partner

Communicating is undoubtedly the most important element of your long-distance relationship . You need to keep in touch at least a little every day. It is necessary to be able to hear from each other, take stock of their day or recount a significant event. Call you!

Whether it’s scheduled calls or surprise calls, your partner’s voice will benefit you. Ideally, have a video chat: it’s always nicer to see your better half.

 

Maintain the flame to avoid routine in a long-distance relationship

Also, keep in the habit of paying special attention to yourself . Having a spirit of seduction for your partner can be important to make your couple live (well dressed, hair, makeup, etc.). You don’t have to do it every time you see each other , but it’s always nice to feel wanted.

Do not hesitate, when you feel the need, to send an SMS, even in the middle of the day, with a joke or an anecdote . Or even, if you want to spice up your relationship and maintain the flame, why not send a sext?

Activities for a couple at a distance: the same as for a classic couple!

In order not to get tired of a long-distance relationship and sink into boredom, do not limit yourself to a simple visual or voice call either, do activities together. Under the pretext that you are distant, you think you do not live like a normal couple? Think again !

Go out of the ordinary, for example:

  • watch a movie together,
  • have dinner with your better half,
  • or listen to music together.

Imagination is your only limit.

Lack and boredom: two closely related factors

Sometimes the weariness of everyday life weighs on your shoulders and the lack is really felt. You would like to find yourself for a hug. All couples go through tough times , but you have to deal with them no matter what. This is in no way inevitable and overcoming boredom is only a test, a temporary problem to be solved.

Live your relationship to the fullest and surprise yourself

You can even maintain the passion, by surprising your partner. Imagine his/her face when he/she receives your love letter or a bouquet of flowers… Despite the distance, treat yourself to gifts , because taking the time to think about the other is vital.

Speaking of surprise, try to surprise your partner by going directly to him without telling him. You just have to admire his reaction when he/she sees you! The happiness will be so intense and memorable that it will be magical. That’s exactly what love is.

And you, how do you fight boredom and monotony in your long-distance relationship?

Author: Erika

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