How to get your ex back in a long distance relationship?

Getting your ex back from a distance is far from easy, but if you still love him, then trying everything to have no regrets is the right solution. As everyone knows, long-distance relationships tend to be relatively complicated. But when it comes to love, difficulty and challenge don’t stop us, and that’s for the best! Here are all of our top tips for getting your ex back despite the miles that separate you.

How to get your ex back from a distance?

Getting your ex back, is it really a good idea?

First of all, are you 100% sure you want to get it back? We prefer to ask the question directly, because as much to warn you, the mission in which you are about to engage turns out to be perilous… and is not necessarily always for the best! If you had many fights in your relationship, constant bouts of jealousy, or suffered from your partner’s bad mood, perhaps you would be happier without him/her in the long run , once the sadness and feelings of past love (because yes, I promise, it will pass one day!).

Understand why you ended your long-distance relationship

The same causes lead to the same effects. You had reasons to break up your relationship from a distance, but perhaps you have evolved? So question yourself. If your characters never worked together, chances are it won’t miraculously improve …

On the other hand, if you had ended your relationship because you were too jealous to accept that your significant other went to parties after class, perhaps you have worked on yourself since and will no longer be so possessive. If you know that the issues that existed at the time of your breakup have been resolved, you may be able to get your ex back!

Getting your ex back for the right reasons…

First of all, why do you want to recover this person? This is already the first question to ask. If you want your ex back, it must be because deep down you have convinced yourself that this person is worth it and you are willing to take the risk of suffering or being disappointed ( e) trying to get it back.

Only take this risk if you are really sure both in your head and in your heart that this person is worth it. If you have the feeling that getting back together will make you unhappy, run away! Sometimes breakups turn out to be opportunities separating you from people who were pushing you down.

…and not out of loneliness

Sometimes it is because you feel extremely alone that you want to get your ex back in a long distance relationship , so that you no longer have to suffer from loneliness. In this case, it is not a favorable ground for a relationship: do you want to recover the person, or just what he represented for you (affection, company when you are alone, etc.)?

Better to be alone than badly accompanied… and to choose, you might as well be well accompanied by others ! If that person wasn’t the right one for you, if you argued a lot, or if they were toxic, don’t try to win your ex back. Instead, choose to surround yourself with people who are better for you. Go out, meet people, make friends…

Small gifts and surprises to try and get your ex back

Let your ex know that he/she matters to you and matters to you. Call, send photos, send videos, have a small surprise gift or love letters delivered to their home … Be inventive The distance is long, boring and heavy, be close, joyful and unpredictable!

You’ll never be 100% sure you’ll get your spouse back, but if you’re in love with that person, you have no right not to fight for them . Prove to him that distance is only a small obstacle in your future together, show him that this distance is only a challenge invented by Cupid to test the magnitude of your feelings. In short, give him a slap of love in the face to revive the flame at the bottom of his heart!

Don’t Bully Your Ex, Just Persevere While There’s Hope

If you want him or her to come back despite the distance, it means that you are convinced that the love between you two is reciprocal , and you are convinced that you still have a chance. Hope dies last and as long as that little voice in your brain is pushing you to give it your all to get your ex back, you have to listen to it.

Luck belongs to the bold, don’t be afraid to try everything. One of the greatest pains remains that of loving someone we cannot have, so if there is a chance, and even if it is tiny, you must do everything to seize it. If, on the other hand, you know that he/she no longer loves you, persevering may prove to be cumbersome and useless…

Make up your mind if your ex doesn’t want to give up on the breakup

If despite your efforts to get him/her back, your ex rejects your advances and is categorical about the end of your relationship from a distance, it is important to know how to give up and not waste your energy and your hopes for nothing. You will then have no choice but to learn to accept this breakup and move on. Never forget that even if you love him very much, a relationship is for two. If he/she does not want to stay by your side, you cannot force him/her to do so.

Don’t make the mistakes that led to your breakup

If you are ready to try a new start, it is important that you do not encounter the same problems again. Use the mistakes of the past and make them a strength for the future.

Indeed, each breakup has its reasons and if you broke up with this person, it is not by chance. We advise you to speak with your ex to discuss together all the mistakes made in the past. There’s nothing better than putting things straight and starting from scratch on a sound basis to move forward. Be ready to assume, ready to cash in, ready to forgive . These are the 3 points you need to consider.

If you can’t get back in a relationship with your ex, all of this learning will come in handy in future relationships , long distance or otherwise. Become better, not for him or for her, but for yourself above all. Understand your problems and take steps to improve. Use your old breakup as a springboard for your new relationship

Don’t ignore your breakup like it never happened

Recovering your ex in a long-distance relationship is not about sending 10 messages and deciding to start all over again as if nothing had happened. That would be a serious mistake.

Getting your ex back means making sure that what hurt you in the past won’t hurt you in the future. Use fouls committed as accumulated experience. You tried and you failed, it is after all incredible strength! And for good reason: now you know the feeling of love failure. You have a head start, you must realize it!

So put things straight and then go for it. Go for it, because life is short and because true love is only found once. Do it, because if you’re willing to give yourself a second chance, it means your love is strong. Go ahead and show everyone who thinks it’s impossible that you’re going to do it! Don’t let distance keep you from retrieving it.

And you, have you ever experienced a break in your long-distance relationship, before going back to your ex?

Author: Erika

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