10 Best Connected, Remotely Controllable Sex Toys [Guide 2022]

Just because you can’t physically have fun together doesn’t mean you can’t have fun together from afar! Making love from a distance, by definition, is a bit complicated. Even if we can send sexts or sexy little videos from time to time, it will never really replace physical contact between bodies. But then how to not get frustrated and take pleasure from a distance?

We have tried to present to you through this article our top 10 of the best sex toys for long-distance relationships, tested over our relationship. Small objects that do not necessarily look like much, but which may give you long moments of pleasure. Even thousands of miles apart. Today, we’re talking about our favorite toys, without taboos!

Guide to the Best Remote Controlled Sex Toys 2022… tested and approved!

Connected sex toys, remote sex, how does it work?

What is a “connected” sex toy, and how can it boost your long-distance relationship? It’s very simple: the whole point of a connected adult toy is that it can be controlled even from the other side of the world… by your boyfriend or girlfriend remotely. A great invention that has saved many couples!

These sex toys are connected via Bluetooth to your mobile, and are linked to a smartphone application to be installed, itself linked to this same application on your partner’s mobile. Once installed (very quickly), all you have to do is play and experience the joys of remote sex! You can choose the intensity of the vibrations, their modes, their frequency and more. Which connected sex toy to choose then? Our advices.

Toys to be used as a couple: sex toys connected… to each other, to really make love from a distance!

Of course, being able to control the playing of his/her partner is already very exciting. But how about making love from a distance in an even more real way? Some high-performing brands have pushed the boundaries of technology even further to bring you a remote sex experience like no other. They have designed pairs of connected sex toys (one for the gentleman, the other for the lady) which each control the other, to make love from a distance in the most realistic way possible!

Max and Nora by Lovense: the pair of synchronized sex toys designed to go the distance!

Max and Nora from Lovense Pros
: – Infinite possibilities : solo play / remotely controlled by your partner / remotely controlled by two / to be used during your reunion…
 Also suitable for gay/lesbian couples : two sex toys can be synchronized “Nora” or two “Max”
 A practical application available on IOS/Android
 The best way to make love from a distance , we really “feel” the other !

Our opinion: Here again, Lovense hits hard with these latest generation connected sex toys! Equipped with sensors, each of these toys reacts according to the other, and adapts the speed of the vibrations, or the contraction… Remote sex becomes much more natural thanks to these small revolutions, and the sensations are there, almost as if we were together. We are fans!

See/Order on the Lovense website

Fuse and Onyx 2 by Kiiroo: the pair of high-end synchronized sex toys to make love from a distance as if you were there

Fuse and Onyx 2 by Kiiroo Pros
: – The best to date in terms of remote sex
 Synchronized, these two sex toys will allow you to make love while really feeling each other’s movements , in real time
 Controllable remotely from anywhere in the world with an app
 Each can also be used separately
 Two models of powerful, top-of-the-range sex toys, designed to amplify your pleasure to the maximum
 LGBT-friendly : we can syncronize two Fuse or two Onyx

Important note: I recommend ordering on the official Kiiroo website, even if it is in English, to avoid the many counterfeits of these high-end products! In addition, delivery is free and fast (3 to 5 days only)

Our opinion: nothing equals this pair of connected sex toys, which completely erases the distance felt in a long-distance relationship. Of course, it’s a substantial sum which put us off at first, but if we had known how much this pair of connected sex toys would suit us, we would have bought them directly rather than trying several others! With Fuse (for her) and Onyx 2 (for him), we really make love, even at 5000 kilometers.

View/Order on the Kiiroo website


Remote controllable sex toys for women: Which toy(s) to choose for her?

The Connected Vibrating Egg, the adult toy pro of discretion

This sex toy may not be as famous as the famous vibrators, but it is still terribly effective when it comes to orgasm . Intended for women, it is composed, as its name suggests, of a small egg connected directly to a very fine stem. Once the vagina is slightly moist from reading your boyfriend’s sexts, all you have to do is insert it gently.

Its size is not disproportionate and penetration will therefore be without any problem. Once inside the vagina, your other half can activate the vibration of the object remotely directly from their smartphone, playing with the different speed levels. This adult toy is not very big (which also allows it to be held comfortably), but we can assure you that once inside and at maximum speed levels, containing your pleasure will become a real challenge…

Lush 3, The most discreet connected vibrating egg

Lush 3 by Lovense
The +: – The most discreet and silent vibrating egg on the market
– Controllable, regardless of distance , with an IOS/Android compatible smartphone application
– Controllable via Bluetooth as well , even solo
– Can be used anywhere , even in public!

Sara’s opinion on the Lush 3: What I like about this toy is its discretion It is very quiet, which allows me to use it anytime, especially when traveling… I love using it solo, but I like it even more when Quentin takes control of the vibrations remotely from his laptop, even thousands of miles away! Even if he is not by my side, the fact of playing like this brings a real bond in the couple, from a distance. I did a full test of it, here . And then, when we meet, we can use it in the cinema, or on the terrace…

Learn more about the Lush 3

Esca 2, a powerful connected vibrating egg special G-spot

Esca 2 by Kiiroo
The +: – Designed specifically for the G-spot
– Very good quality, the charge lasts 3 hours
 Controllable remotely from anywhere in the world
– Can be synchronized with another Kiiroo toy of your partner
 Thrills !
– Discreet, to be used anywhere…


Important note: I recommend ordering on the official Kiiroo website , even if it is in English, to avoid counterfeits of these high-end products! Delivery is free and fast (3 to 5 days only)

Sara’s opinion on the Esca 2: I got myself this connected vibrating egg a short time ago, but I already really appreciate it! The diode seemed a little useless to me, so I deactivated it, but for the rest… nothing to complain about, the motor is powerful and the “connected” side of this sex toy is very practical. Sometimes my darling chooses “what sauce I’m going to be eaten with” (even if he’s miles away!). Others, it’s me who decides, and who takes control with my smartphone which acts as a remote control…

Find out more about the Esca 2

The remote-controllable vibrator, an effective classic

Even if the connected vibrator is already known and recognized, however, we could not not talk about it! The vibrator is an excellent way to combine vaginal and anal penetration (depending on the model) with vibrations. Of substantial size, similar to a penis, this sex toy is by far the must in terms of pleasure. And the closest to a relationship with your boyfriend! Orgasm usually doesn’t take long, and can be extremely intense… (Note, however: This model is not suitable for anal use)

Nora, number 1 in sales of connected vibrators

nora , by Lovense Pros
: – Waterproof (water resistant)
– “Rabbit” model designed for vaginal AND clitoral stimulation, for twice the pleasure
– Controllable at any distance by your better half
– Powerful vibrations, head rotating to increase the pleasure
– Possibility to synchronize Nora with the Max toy (for Men) or another Nora (for Women)

Sara’s opinion: Unsurprisingly, for me this is the ideal connected vibrator. Not because it is particularly innovative, but because it is particularly effective, without being overpriced! After all, we’re not going to lie to each other, what we miss the most while waiting for our boyfriend is probably the penetration. Thanks to this model, I meet my needs, in the most pleasant way possible. And when we can afford it, we take advantage of the fact that darling has a sex toy synchronized with mine (the Max 2 masturbator) to make love at a distance for two… a much better experience than all the rest!

See/Order Nora on the official website

Pearl 2, the connected vibrator that hides its game well

Pearl 2 by Kiiroo Pros
: – Waterproof (can be used in water)
 LGBT-friendly : ideal for female couples, who would like to synchronize two vibrators to play together from a distance
 Reacts to natural body movements
– Design Sleek, high-quality soft silicone – Intense vibrations , to stimulate inside… and outside


Important note: Like all high-end Kiiroo products, it is important to place an order on the official website to avoid numerous counterfeits. Delivery is free and fast (3 to 5 days).

Sara’s opinion : This model is a great classic , and even if I prefer “rabbit” models with a part designed to stimulate the clitoris during penetration, I must admit that I am very pleasantly surprised! This model is deliciously powerful, which allows you to vary the pleasures… and the intensity of the vibrations . Remotely controllable and synchronizable with all Kiiroo products , I must say that it hides its game well and allows you to have a lot of fun… alone or in pairs!

See/Order the Pearl 2 on the Kiroo website

Ohmibod Fuse, the high-end connected “rabbit”

Ohmibod Fuse by Kiiroo Pros
: – Powerful sensations, vibration after vibration
 Clitoral and vaginal pleasure … at the same time
 Best connected vibrator on the market, especially for synchronization between two sex toys
 Controllable remotely from anywhere in the world
 Reacts to the natural movements of the corp s


Important note: Like all high-end Kiiroo products, it is important to place an order on the official website to avoid numerous counterfeits. Delivery is free and fast (3 to 5 days only).

Sara’s opinion: We immediately feel that we are changing range with this model! Even if the cost is higher, this investment is totally justified in my opinion. The Fuse promises you hours of intense pleasure, and sensations incomparable to those of other connected vibrators on the market . It adapts to your moods and your needs by reacting to the instinctive movements of your body, and by titillating your clitoris while increasing the vaginal pleasure   until you reach orgasm. When my darling takes control, I can’t resist for long… Top of the line: synchronize it with your partner’s toy to be able to make love from a distance.

View/Order the Fuse on the official website


The connected Clitoral Stimulator, for a (really) guaranteed orgasm

Ladies, if you’ve never heard of this type of sextoy, don’t go your way. Don’t be fooled by its perhaps less sexy look: the clitoral stimulator is a jewel of ingenuity, with unparalleled sensations. So what good news to discover this very first connected clitoral stimulator!

Placed against your clitoris, it exerts suctions of different powers without direct contact thanks to a unique pulsed air technology. A delight for the senses, close to the sensations of cunilingus, which will certainly lead you to an uncontrollable orgasm 100% guaranteed (…and to multiple orgasms with experience). Waterproof, the waves are even amplified in the water, for our greatest pleasure.

Melt, the 1st connected clitoral stimulator

Melt to WeVibe
Most – Orgasm guaranteed , even for beginners!
– Waterproof, to have fun in the bath
– Can be used alone or as a couple during lovemaking – Controllable even from the other side of the world – Sensations close to cunnilingus – 10 levels of intensity

 

Sara’s opinion: If you liked the Satisfier , the n°1 clitoral stimulator on the market, you will love the Melt , from WeVibe. It is clear that in the end, the fact that it is remotely controllable adds a whole new charm to it! When my darling “takes the hand”, I totally let myself go to the unique and indescribable sensations of this toy. In the bath, I find them even more powerful: a great discovery!

Find out more about Melt / Place an order


Remote-controllable sex toys for men: Which toy(s) to choose for him?

The connected rigid masturbator, ideal for your remote boyfriend

Now let’s move on to male pleasure with connected masturbators. These small cylindrical objects generally measuring around ten centimeters are excellent for diversifying pleasure and letting your other half take control. Once the penis is erect and inserted inside, Madame can have fun choosing the power levels and the object will simulate masturbation.

Although very far from real penetration in terms of feelings, the sensations offered by this connected masturbator are really strong and the fact of enjoying without being able to control risks greatly changing your perception of masturbation. And then, when it’s your soul mate who is in charge, it’s much better, isn’t it?

Max 2, n°1 in sales of connected masturbators

Max 2 by Lovense Pros
: – A completely different masturbation experience
 Multiple sensations thanks to different textures
 360° contractions , for increased pleasure
 Connected toy, controllable from a great distance
– Safe

Quentin’s opinion: Before, I considered that this kind of sex toys were more gadgets than anything else… I got this masturbator to use it in pairs with my darling’s “Nora” toy , and I review my opinion on the subject ! The sensations are exceptional, and once the apprehension has passed the first 20 seconds, you let yourself be carried away by waves of pleasure… A must-have!

View/Order Max 2 on the official website

Onyx 2, the high-end connected masturbator

Onyx 2 by Kiiroo Pros
: – The best masturbation of your life!
 Remotely controllable by your partner , even from 5000 kilometers away
 Breathtaking sensations
– Can be used solo or as a couple
– Synchronizable
 with any connected Kiiroo sex toy
– Makes remote sex almost like real sex

Important note: Like all high-end Kiiroo products, it is important to place an order on the official website to avoid numerous counterfeits. Delivery is free and fast (3 to 5 days only)

Quentin’s opinion: We are not going to go through 4 paths: I had never had such an intense orgasm with masturbation before . The Onyx 2 model cuts to the chase, and it does it well! For me, it’s the only connected sex toy for men you’ll need before long. I was put off by the price at first, but if I had known what intense sensations this toy produced, I would never have started trying any others: it makes remote sex amazing! When it is connected to my girlfriend’s vibrator, we experience a real moment of ecstasy, almost like during love. I recommend.

See/Order the Onyx 2 on the official website


The Connected Vibrating Ring, to have fun, and to please

Let’s continue with a great classic for men: do you know the connected vibrating rings? These sex toys are extremely light and easy to carry. Unlike the masturbator which, as its name suggests, will masturbate your boyfriend’s penis from a distance, the ring will be a simple accompaniment. Once fixed at the bottom of your man’s penis, you can send him small stimulating vibrations from a distance to accompany him during his solitary pleasure. This little extra risks giving her a much more powerful orgasm than during a classic masturbation.

Verge, our favorite connected vibrating ring

“Verge” connected ring
The +: – 10 vibration modes
– Can be used alone or in pairs, during lovemaking
– 1st connected ring, controllable from an app
– More intense orgasms
– Allows a better erection
– Possibility of creating personalized vibrations

Quentin’s opinion: By stimulating the perineum, this connected ring manages to work miracles : the erection is strengthened and the orgasm much more intense. And since he is connected remotely, my darling sometimes gives me a little boost from his smartphone… which is as pleasant as it is unexpected in terms of sensations, we have to let go. Very nice to use at the time of the reunion too, to help stimulate Madame’s clitoris during the act…

See/Order this vibrating ring

Mixed connected sex toys, for women and men

The remote-controllable vibrating Anal Plug, for strong and new sensations

What if distance was used to prepare your body for new pleasures? Sodomy is a sexual practice made popular by pornography and often associated in people’s minds with pain. However, it can allow you to feel a new type of orgasm, sometimes much more powerful than a classic orgasm, especially for men thanks to the miracles of the prostate.

Thanks to this connected anal plug, whether you are a beginner or accustomed to the practice, you will be able to test new pleasures alone or in pairs. To make the moment even more exciting, your partner will send you small vibrations from a distance. Once well lubricated and accompanied by the delicate vibrations, this new pleasure may change your vision of sexuality.

Hush, our favorite connected butt plug

Hush by Lovense
2 diameters available: 3.8cm and 4.5cm Pros
: – Discreet even in public
– For beginners and intermediates alike – Very powerful
anal plug – Controllable from anywhere , even 1000 km away! – The charge lasts for 1.5 to 2 continuous hours
 

Our opinion : Ideal for beginners, this connected toy is much more powerful than it seems… However, we recommend ordering the 3.8 cm diameter model rather than the 4.5 cm one if you are a beginner. What we liked: unlike other anal plugs, this one has small ridges at its base, which help retain the lubricant. The fact that it is a remote controllable sex toy brings a real advantage: it is a real delight to observe the reactions of his/her partner…

View/Order Hush on the Lovense website

A connected, powerful and irresistible Magic Wand

You couldn’t miss the “Magic Wands”, these little revolutions! Originally designed as vibrating bars intended for massages, the manufacturers were surprised to realize that people (especially the ladies) were using them for so many other things… and getting a lot more pleasure out of them that way. . Powerful and robust, you won’t be able to resist the connected Magic Wands… Orgasm guaranteed!

Domi, our favorite connected Magic Wand

Domi by Lovense
The + : – Very small and stylish compared to other Magic Wands
– Connected toy, remote controllable
– Toy with rotating head for more sensations
– Possibility of adding additional accessories for the pleasure of Mrs… or Mr .
– Powerful vibrations,
 sensations at the rendezvous


Our opinion: Usually, additional accessories are a bit of a gimmick. Here, they bring a whole new experience… to Madame and Monsieur! Magic wands are usually reserved for women, and what a mistake. If you’re looking for thrills, regardless of gender, you can’t go wrong. Used from a distance, this adult toy will allow you to read strong emotions on your partner’s face… so be careful not to wear them out too quickly.

See/Order Domi on the Lovense website


Sex toys, a way to avoid the lack of a couple from a distance

Even if the prices can sometimes rise, buying sex toys for couples to have fun at a distance will certainly be a very good investment! Always cheaper than a plane ticket per week to meet our needs haha, and we gained in complicity. What we recommend the most is certainly the Nora + Max 2 combo for its quality/price/pleasure ratio. On the other hand, in terms of sensations, nothing beats Kiiroo and its high-end models Onyx 2 and Fuse, which totally won us over !

We ourselves have experienced the sexual frustration linked to estrangement, and perhaps without these toys, our story would not have lasted… Having remote-controllable sex toys was a real boost, which we don’t never regretted. And then, as these adult toys can also be used solo , even if tomorrow you find yourself living together, you can still use them. We don’t mind!

And you, what are your favorite connected toys? Which ones do you already plan to treat yourself to?

Author: Erika

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